Kiss My.....

Kissing... Yummmm!! Who doesn't love a hot steamy kiss? With a good kisser of course. Kisses are what really make a relationship, not sex. First kisses are always special and unforgettable. We all remember exactly where, how old we were, and who it was with , so kisses are a huge deal! But what do his kisses actually mean? Seriously?! We all have attempted analyzing what "forehead kisses" and the "ass grab" first kiss mean. So let's put it into an actual generalized kissing dictionary.

What does it mean when....

His first kiss is soft or "peck" like:
He's probably pretty shy, or doesn't go out with girls as often as the other. As long as your time together went pretty well, he's probably really into you. It may be surprising, but like 9/10 he is. A subtle gesture like this let's you know he's got a little fling for you, but he wants you to know he respects your boundaries. He probably doesn't want to push it and seem too forward and scare you off. So take it as a sweet gesture and move on with it! Definitely don't freak out. He's just more chivalrous then the others.

If the time you two did spend together though wasn't as planned, there just wasn't chemistry but he didn't want to leave you hangin. So buck up and move onto the next one.

Ass/boob grab:

You two have bangin sexual chemistry, but, as simple as he so blatantly grabbed... he just wants you for you bod. He is literally just trying to get a piece of ass. The move is fine if you're hooking up, or your dating whatever, but just know it's his little way of saying "I want to do it with you, so I'm going to "sneakily" show you." Yeah not so sneaky.  And unless you're actually going to; mellow out, and tell him to do the same. Otherwise it's going to get real awkward real fast, and he's going to pretty....blue... about the whole misunderstanding.

Classic arms around the waist, neck, shoulders, etc:
He's into you and the kiss. He's not feeling too romantic but not trying to pressure you either. It's a good happy-medium, and the most generic form/stance. It's safe but comfortable, so no one really feels out of place.

Face/neck-grab:
SWOON!! If you face grab, especially double face grab, brownie points to you my friend. You know what you are doing! When someone kisses us (and I'm mainly talking girls here) and they grab our faces? It literally melts us like butter. We feel safe and secure and wanted in the space of your manly hands. It's soft yet aggressive. You're taking control of the kiss but it's in the softest, most romantic way. More guys should use this technique, cause whether you really like the girl or not, it's gonna get you a lot farther than you think. Cause even when a girl isn't that into a kiss, and a guy goes for the face grab. . . it's a game changer. TRUST ME.

Kiss on the forehead:

No one who recieves this really know what it means, but boy do we find it sweet and just like face-grabs...swoon! It's always a mystery why girls find these kisses so affectionate, but then again their one of those gestures that mean a thousand words. If you read any magazine or Q:A about these babies, the same response usually occurs. "He's just being affectionate", but I think there is always a little more to the story. Forehead kisses are ones that make you feel safe and secure. Like you're important. So don't take them for granite, and be sure to tell your man how much you like them, or that you feel special when he does that. . . because you know we all do. Don't try to deny it cause then you'd be a liar.